Episode 03: 

Let’s introduce some new ideas from your Higher Self to HIGHLY support your decision-making RIGHT NOW  

1.Your ability to make decisions is POWERFUL in itself. It is such a privilege to be the authority over your own life

2. Decision making is really  discovery 

3. There is no right decision to make; The right decision is the one you choose and you decide is right for you

4. Your path is yours, it is impossible for you to mess it up 

5. You get to become familiar with your own inner guidance system

6. Self Trust is essential to being able to make decisions for yourself: 
“I trust myself to make any decision”  “I trust myself to feel ANY outcome” 

7. You get to borrow from your future-self and make choices for the future that you want, NOW

Assuming your future self is where you want to be: 

What decisions did they make to get there? 

What decisions would they be making right now that you’re not making? 

And how would they feel about making decisions? 

Certain? Brave? At ease? Excited? 

Guess! Play with this!!

8. You get to make decisions based on best case scenarios. If all of the options have a winning outcome, which would you want to choose? 

9. Sell yourself on the decision and then support yourself all the way through it 

10. End perfectionism around your decision making. “The decision that feels best for me IS the perfect one” 

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Making a decision is neutral. 

It is the thoughts you have about the decision that gives it meaning and CHARGES it to feel negative or positive 

Some thoughts that could offer a negative feelings:

“I don’t know what to do”
“I don’t know which is the best decision” 
“This could be really bad”
“I could mess it all up”
“I’m afraid I’ll make the wrong decision” 

OR You could choose different thoughts and have a most “positive” experience: 

“I get win/win outcomes” (I either get the winning outcome or I learn) 
“The right decision is the one I make right”
“Making decisions is really self discovery, it unlocks new possibilities and information for me”
“It gets to be fun and playful”
“Every decision I make is the best one” 
“I am really good at making decisions” 
“Making decisions is easy for me” 

You are in charge of your outcomes, of how you’ll experience your outcomes, and of what you get out of every experience

Sit with this for a bit, what thoughts are you having around a decision, notice how they’re making it feel? Does it feel hard, confusing, pressurey?

That’s because your mind is trying to solve for the right answer 

You don't have to do that anymore! You get to choose the answer that feels best to you,  like YOUR YES

Could you choose even one new one to have that SUPPORTS you? Something like “I trust myself to make my own right decision, OR the best decision is the one I will make?”

All of this is building your skills of SELF LEADERSHIP!!! 

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Lastly, you get to offer yourself compassion for every decision you’ve made in the past

What if every decision you made, no matter what the outcome was, was exactly the right decision at the time? 

How could you be proud of everything you’ve become and every decision you’ve made? 

There will need to be this making amends and honoring of who you were, so that you can trust yourself to lead NOW 

From this moment forward, you can decide to be PROUD of the person you were, and who you are every day 

If you want to be coached on how to really lead yourself and trust yourself to make decisions that are self-honoring, I can absolutely help you! Reach out, XO XO Jen